What Is Confrontation? How to Control Yourself From It?

 

Confrontation is a way of tending to deal with situation in an aggressive way or
argumentative. They are not shy about arguing forcefully and it is the way, they
often interact with other people. Face-to-face aggressive argument between
people is known as confrontational.


What is Physical Confrontation?

Physical confrontation is an act of violence where an individual expresses anger
by hitting, pushing, or otherwise physically assaulting of any member.
Whether being confrontational is good or bad?

Confrontation is mostly noted as a negative image because people tend to
confront others not about pleasant things but about painful, unpleasant things
and they also suffers from the stigma of being overly aggressive in both nature
and intent.

The advantage of being confrontational in times of conflict is that even if things
cannot get resolved, the other person will appreciate your approach and will most
likely respect you more than they had prior.

A strength confrontation challenges the person in a positive way. People sense
strengths in them and find them valuable and see their talent talk possess. A
weakness confrontation points out discrepancies that focus on negative things and they often communicate in louder tone which may form a negative image of
them.


Confrontational Behaviors

•  Goes against one’s opinion

•  Active aggressive behavior

•  Being transparent

•  Rising voice

•  Physical actions

•  Being disrespect

•  Never consider one’s feeling

•  Improper communication

How Confrontational Affects One’s Relationship?

In a relationship, someone who avoids confrontation may feel that the
relationship they have with the person provoking them and considering one’s
feeling. Being weakness confrontational always damages relationship and
develops argument.

Never try to ignore the problems because of confrontation, it only helps
temporarily, especially if you don’t have the energy to confront the problem at the time but it isn’t a long term fix. Have a complete talk and resolve the
problems as soon as possible.

Confrontation can be unhealthy or ugly is there is the inclusion of abuses, yelling
and sometimes even getting violent with our actions. In such cases conflict
confrontation may get ugly and destroy the positive relation between both of
them.


How to Avoid Confrontation?

If you have problems with being confrontational, give yourself the best chance to
stay calm and cool. Make your communication with reasonable tone of voice and
know what you want to say beforehand with wise words. Think of the points that
you want to get across to others and keep it clearly and open. Try to consider and
respect others opinion with open mind and avoid argument.


Why is Confrontation Important?

People who avoid confrontation are often passive or codependent in nature. They
don’t believe in their own point and think they don’t have a valid opinion. They
have fear of rejection when standing up for themselves and they are unsure of
what they actually need and want.

Confrontation allows for honestly and transparency in one’s relationship. While
confronting someone may not always end with the outcome they had in mind,
people will always value honesty and will respect you for coming forward with
your concerns.



Witten By - Reshma Madhini

Edited By - Vanshu Verma