Norman Vincent Peale
Since Peale wasn’t a scientist, many mental experts disagreed with his ideas. The book received a lot of favorable and highly critical feedback. He himself was a living proof of the ideologies he quoted in the book. He died at age of 95 on Christmas Eve in 1993.
A Peak Into the Book and the Ideas it Treasures
'The Power of Positive Thinking' is a wonderful piece of work that houses lots of ideas to enhance one's faith and it continues to inspire youngsters and adults alike. It helps to inculcate positivity and happiness in the readers. Some of the ideas are as follows:
'The Power of Positive Thinking' is a wonderful piece of work that houses lots of ideas to enhance one's faith and it continues to inspire youngsters and adults alike. It helps to inculcate positivity and happiness in the readers. Some of the ideas are as follows:
- Start with confidence and watch your problems shrink.
- Your world is nothing more than the thoughts you have about your experiences.
- In order to live worry-free, first imagine a worry-free life.
Lesson 1
Believe in yourself and visualize your goals to see how small your problems are.
Yes, confidence is important, because if you feel inferior, you’ll act inferior. We know confidence alone doesn’t solve all problems. After all, it’s not the same as competence, and telling a kid who’s not good at math’s that she’s great won’t make her study more for the next test. However, the case for believing in yourself, that Peale makes, is one we’ve all experienced: the self-fulfilling prophecy.
When you start a new job and go in on the first day, thinking no one will like you, that you’ll probably screw up and you’ll behave in a way that makes sure it comes true! Even worse, when you then get the feedback that “you were right” this drives even more negative thoughts, thus starting a vicious cycle.
It is up to you to actively change your thoughts and believe that you can bring value wherever you go. Peale suggests an exercise to help you do that, which happens to be backed by science.
Visualize your goals and the positive outcomes you want. What should your life look like in 6 months? What do you want to achieve? Then, contrast those by visualizing the problems and obstacles that you might face along the way. This is called “mental contrasting” and has been proven to cause changes in behavior that last for weeks.
Lesson 2
Your attitude determines your entire life.
“Your world is nothing more than the thoughts you have about your experiences.”
Of course all the problems in your life are real. And yes, some of them might take a few years to get solved, like debt, or a serious illness. But how you react to those problems is entirely up to you. You might not be able to solve those problems at the push of a button, but your attitude is something you can change from one second to the next. Your world, your reality, is only determined by what you think about everything you experience in life.
For example, if you leave your house tomorrow morning, and are almost hit by a car, which breaks at the last second, you can treat this as a bad sign and spend the rest of the day walking around afraid of anything and everything. Alternatively, you can take this experience as a wonderful gift, a miracle even, and live your life to the fullest, enjoying every single second of the day and being grateful.
Don’t choose negative thoughts, when you can choose positive ones. Ever.
Lesson 3
Imagine your life free of worry to become less concerned about the future.
Here’s a super meta hack for worrying less: Imagine yourself as a worry-free person in the future. Just imagining that it is possible for you to live without worry will take a lot of your current worries away.
Worry is a major source of stress, and thus often leads to heart disease, arthritis and other illnesses which cause your life expectancy to go down. So it is in your best interest to eliminate it, wherever possible.
Close your eyes, look into the future, and imagine yourself a few months or years from now, living free from all the worries that currently plague you, and you’ll feel much better when you open your eyes again. Peale calls this draining your mind and it’s especially helpful before going to sleep, because then positive thoughts will sink into your subconscious, instead of negative ones.
The Power of Positive Thinking: A Brief Review
For anyone who is a huge sucker for positive psychology, it's easy to get carried away with it. For the one who takes themselves to be a massive optimist, but not doing anything to get to where they want to be, this book is a good shot. Eventually, you can have a personal reality check and understand it takes more than a bunch of happy thoughts to make stuff happen.
This book is a classic, and the blinks do a great job at summarizing the most important point. Here are some of the examples of people who successfully applied the tactics, which are detailed in 'The Power of Positive Thinking.'
What else can you learn from the blinks?
How you can get others to care about you, by caring about them.
Why you’re not a special snowflake (and how that’ll help you ease the burden of your own problems).
What can you learn from children “the experts of happiness”.
Why should you focus on the upsides of being stuck in a bad situation.
Why is it important to have faith, no matter what you believe in.
As said earlier the book is classic and enough to make anyone think positively. So, Anyone mature enough to understand the ideologies must read it. Most recommended, the 31 year old worrier, who sighs at every potential obstacle, the 57 year old high performer, who often goes to bed thinking about next day’s problems, and anyone who’s a pessimist.
Written by - Atul Bihari Chakrawarti
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