Ravi Bala Sharma - What Keeps My Passion for Dance Alive Is the Memory of My Late Husband (Dancer with 580k Followers)

"Once in a while, viewers will comment saying, "Aunty, puja karne ki umar mein naach rahin hain", and I just never stop dancing......"

 

1. Tell us about your journey and what keeps your passion for dance alive at 65?

My journey into the world of dance and music began in my childhood in Moradabad, where my father, a music enthusiast, imparted formal education in music and Kathak dance. Music and dance were not just hobbies but integral parts of our family life, shaping my early years profoundly. Later, I pursued a career as a music teacher in a Delhi government school, dedicating three decades to nurturing young minds through music education.

In 2016, tragedy struck with the loss of my beloved husband to cancer. His passing left a void that seemed insurmountable. However, amidst grief, I found solace and renewed purpose in the art form that had always been my passion: dance. Dance became not just an expression of joy but a means of navigating through the darkest times of my life.

At 65, what keeps my passion for dance alive is the memory of my late husband, whose eyes would light up with pride whenever I performed. His unwavering support and encouragement echo in my heart, propelling me forward on this journey. Dance isn't just a hobby; it's a lifeline, infusing my days with vitality, joy, and an indomitable spirit.

2. How has Instagram transformed your dance journey?

Instagram has been a game-changer in my dance journey, serving as a platform to connect with my children and a vibrant global community of dance enthusiasts. Through Instagram, I've been able to share my passion for dance with a wider audience, breaking geographical barriers and fostering meaningful connections. The support and encouragement I've received from followers have been immensely uplifting, fueling my determination to pursue my passion wholeheartedly.

Moreover, Instagram has provided me with opportunities to collaborate with esteemed artists and directors, opening doors to new experiences and adventures in the world of dance. It's truly remarkable how social media has transformed the way we share and appreciate art, and I'm grateful to be a part of this digital revolution.

3. Most memorable moment from your dance career?

Reflecting on my dance career, one moment stands out above all others: sharing the stage with the legendary Madhuri Dixit. It was a surreal experience, a dream come true for a small-town girl like me. To dance alongside one of the most iconic figures in Indian cinema was an honor and privilege beyond words. The memory of that moment will forever be etched in my heart as a testament to the power of passion and perseverance.

However, beyond celebrity encounters, what truly makes my dance journey memorable are the countless moments of connection and inspiration shared with audiences around the world. Whether it's performing for a small gathering of family and friends or captivating a larger audience on social media, each moment spent dancing is a celebration of life, love, and the universal language of art.

4. What motivates you to keep pushing boundaries?

The drive to push boundaries and explore new horizons stems from a deep-seated desire to stay active, healthy, and inspired. As someone who believes in lifelong learning and growth, I find immense fulfillment in challenging myself and stepping out of my comfort zone. Each dance performance presents an opportunity to discover new facets of myself, embrace fresh challenges, and push the limits of what I thought was possible.

Moreover, the encouragement and support I receive from my followers on social media serve as a constant source of motivation. Their uplifting comments and messages remind me of the impact that my journey can have on others, inspiring them to pursue their passions and live life to the fullest. In a world where age often dictates our limitations, I strive to defy stereotypes and show that passion knows no bounds.

5. How does dance promote cultural understanding?

Dance, with its rich history and cultural significance, serves as a powerful tool for promoting cross-cultural understanding and appreciation. Traditional dance forms like Kathak are not just expressions of artistry but also repositories of cultural heritage, carrying with them stories, traditions, and values passed down through generations.

Through platforms like social media, dance enthusiasts from diverse backgrounds can come together to share and celebrate their respective cultural traditions. Whether it's through collaborative projects, virtual performances, or cultural exchanges, dance has the power to bridge gaps and foster mutual respect and understanding among people from different walks of life.

By immersing ourselves in the beauty and diversity of dance, we gain a deeper appreciation for the rich tapestry of human culture, transcending borders and fostering a sense of unity in diversity.

6. What is your favorite book and why?

One of my all-time favorite books is "Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life" by Hector Garcia and Francesc Miralles. This book resonates with me on a deep level because it delves into the fundamental question of finding purpose and fulfillment in life. Drawing inspiration from the concept of ikigai, which refers to the intersection of one's passion, mission, vocation, and profession, the book offers valuable insights into living a meaningful and fulfilling life.

What I love most about "Ikigai" is its emphasis on aligning one's passions, values, and talents to create a life of purpose and contentment. As someone who has found renewed purpose and joy in pursuing my passion for dance, the principles outlined in this book resonate deeply with me. It serves as a constant reminder to follow my heart, embrace life's challenges with courage and resilience, and strive to live each day with intention and gratitude.

Bio:

Ravi Bala Sharma is a resilient dancer and music educator from Moradabad, India, with a lifelong passion for performance. After teaching music for thirty years, she found solace and renewal through dance following the loss of their beloved husband to cancer in 2016. Now, at 65, she embraces dance as a source of healing, joy, and self-expression, sharing their journey with a global audience on Instagram. Through their performances and online presence, she inspires others to pursue their passions and embrace life with vitality and joy.

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Interviewed by: Mishika Goel